People Can Change
**Once upon a time I didn’t want to spend so much time with my daughter**
Hear me out and know there’s a reason I’m sharing this..
Like you I’m sure one of your top values is helping people right?
For those who don’t know me…
It hasn’t always been so easy to see my daughter. Born in a different country and a mum with programs around men aren’t trustworthy etc.. It was an uphill learning experience and a huge wake up call!
When my daughter was first born she made it as difficult as possible to see her. I’m sure some of you reading this have been there. I won’t go into detail, but let’s just say it was some of the hardest times of my life.
IN THAT TIME THOUGH..
I closed a part of myself off and with limited awareness made the decision that “ok I can’t do anything about it right now, but let me make lots of money, sort my shit out and then I’ll come back stronger and my daughter will be more in my life”
The problem is.. When you make those kind of vows to yourself.. You have no idea at the time just how long that might take.
With awareness I saw my daughter as often as I could in recent years…
I was always working weekends. Clients, events. You know the drill!
Guided by that promissory vow to myself that:
“when” I reach x place I can take her mum to court and make what’s right happen. Guaranteed access, not being messed around etc..
“When” I have grown a certain amount and integrated my shit, life will show up differently and her mum won’t be so crazy
“When I’ve made it financially” I can make everything better.
On top of all that though I had a program running that I wasn’t aware of.
Yes Luyana on a soul level picked me to be her dad. Cool.
So the way my brain had worked it out was I’ll get on helping as many people as possible and I can have more impact on more souls this way and in the mid to long term I’ll be in a better place and be able to see my daughter more on my terms (as above money etc).
Now I know as you read this, you may be thinking to yourself you’d never do such a thing.
HOW could I put my growth and where I was going to be at a certain point (coupled with some emotional shutdown mind you) ahead of spending time with my daughter at any given possible moment?!
IN MY OWN mind I was convinced I was helping more people in the short term by making that sacrifice. I was convinced that by tackling my growth as much as possible, all the while still only seeing my daughter every other week at best I was going to win in the long term.
THE SHIFT came however, when I truly realised how powerful I was.
It’s interesting How it came up during our shares in ManClub on Friday, it came up yesterday when I was Speaking to clients at Shamonis PMV yesterday (and then felt inspired to talk about it to everyone) and now I’m feeling inspired to share this with you now..
FOR ONE REASON!!
You my friend, reading this right now, totally underestimate your own power!
AND I’m not talking about from the usual stance that gets banded around the personal development space that nothing is impossible.
I’m sorry but there is a limit. Some of us no matter how hard we try are not going to become an astronaut, we are just not made that way. Play to your strengths and align with what your soul was assigned to do in this lifetime…maybe your soul doesn’t want to be an astronaut? Eh?
ANYWAY.. What I’m talking about is completely different..
And.. that’s your beingness
What frequency, vibration..
What energy are you emanating at any given monument…..?
So what am I getting at?
**MY PERSONAL SHIFT came when I realised..
By me deciding to see my daughter more frequently (no matter how challenging logistically that seemed), to spend time with her, phone only coming out for directions and 100% presence and answering every word that came out of her mouth like it was the first…
..that on an energetic/vibrational level I was shifting, giving permission and sending out a frequency to all those I know,
anyone in the same situation,
the collective consciousness,
the matrix connecting us all…
the whole universe…
That would effect and influence all the single mothers who felt men were not to be trusted and all the dads who felt frustration and anger at being restricted from seeing their child
What if YOU are that powerful that every action you take, every decision you make, every feeling you embrace…
Each and every single time you decide to embrace your truth..
YOU ARE THAT POWERFUL
That someone out there (maybe just maybe) who doesn’t even know you, finds that extra bit of courage within themselves to live more in their truth..
And YOU helped them get there!
Now I hope
I’m making sense..
We all know you only get what you focus on.
THE UNIVERSE doesn’t know yes or no, negative or positive intentions.. It just recognises focus!
So imagine instead of looking outside of the world at all the things you can see are “wrong”
You started questioning the moments when you don’t speak your truth. And WHY?
The moments when you don’t embrace those feelings.
WHY IS THAT?!
YOU ARE MORE POWERFUL then you have ever given yourself credit for! I guarantee you.
I am on a mission to shift consciousness on this planet. But if my grass at home is dying, the grass on other pastures I’m manning energetically won’t be able to grow as well
**SO I INVITE You**
EACH and EVERY single time you feel the fear and think about not doing it anyway,
Those souls assigned to you,
All those people out there who need your help
Maybe just maybe will have to wait a bit longer to be in their truth, simply by you not being in yours..
Have an amazing week ahead and I truly hope in this intense time of change you are able to live your truth so that others can embrace theirs 🙏🙏
Not only did me and luyana have an amazing time at the Zoo (despite the tiger that didn’t want to be there) I got to embrace the kid in me for a day.. And I’d like to believe that some guy or girl, mum daughter, brother, boy.. Got to experience the part of them that wanted to have a fun day out too! 😉