It all comes down to love and compassion.
For yourself!
Something I love about writing each morning, is that I never know where it’s going to go. Just like when I speak on stage I guess 😛
When I’m in flow and I’m making a point, it’s like I’m asking myself a question so that I can inspire and help others.
AND something hit me this morning when I was writing a post in my men’s Facebook group “ManClub”…
When it comes down to women, our career and everything in between… it simply just comes down to how much we know and can accept ourselves i.e. how much unconditional love we have for ourselves.
I f*ck up all the time! I make mistakes… I have at least 1 client every week or so who tells me something that would make your eyes water or would make you gasp with the shock of what they think when nobody is listening..
BUT my ability to not feel any judgement for them and what they’re trying to forgive themselves for, is simply a reflection of the lack of judgement I have for myself.
WHY though?
I KNOW MYSELF.
When you know the dark parts of you and can just see those parts as exactly that “parts” and know that innately your intentions are good, you are here to help people, to experience and promote JOY and UNCONDITIONAL Love
THE FACT that every now and then you say something you don’t mean, you hurt another emotionally, mentally even physically.
OR…
MAYBE you’re beating yourself up for not being there for someone else and you feel like there have been consequences as a result
MAYBE you cheated on your partner!
Emotionally or physically..ask yourself why is one worse that the other? (It’s only the meaning and what it means to you!)
MAYBE you owe people money
MAYBE you just spoke on stage and realise half of what you said you don’t live yourself and maybe it’s time you lived more of what you teach…
I DON’T CARE!!
Nobody else really does… and if they do it’s only because they’re judging in YOU what they see or feel in themselves…
SO GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK!
You are doing the best with the current wisdom you have. Just when you get the awareness, do your best to understand WHY you did something and to grow from it. That’s what it’s there for!
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**SIN**
It’s funny that the word “Sin” has become synonymous with so many things especially around sex and doing wrong to others.
Before the establishment that is Christianity came along and put so much emphasis on doing wrong, the ancient civilizations before that saw it differently.
The Ancient civilization of Nazareth derived the word “Sin” from their bowmen, to mean “to miss the mark” i.e. when they didn’t hit the bullseye with their arrow.
They then used it in society as a word for “whoops you missed the mark, dust yourself off and try again”
In others words.. “whoops you made a mistake”.. NOT “you did wrong and God will punish YOU!”
SO.. whatever you feel you’ve done wrong or you can’t forgive yourself for
KNOW THAT..
“every saint was once a sinner and every sinner has a future”
With awareness comes forgiveness.
You don’t owe anyone anything.
Dust yourself off, do your best and start accepting yourself 100% warts and all, fuck ups and all
Start acknowledging yourself every day for how amazing you are, especially if you’re reading this you truly must be a lightworker 😛
Seriously though, you’re more conscious and doing more good than you give yourself credit for!!
AND THEN LET IT FUCKING GO!
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SO REMEMBER:
If you’re not going for the job you want
the business you want to setup
or as in ManClub this morning, the partner you desire
There’s some part of yourself you have yet to know. AND accept!
Get excited! It’s fun!
When I finally accepted how twisted my humour actually is.
How much sexual energy I have, isn’t a bad thing.
AND that all those I’ve hurt in the past or that hurt me…. that wasn’t the intention, it JUST WAS (and actually was a hidden gift)
I felt more acceptance, acknowledgement and LOVE for myself and all those around me then I thought possible..
You can get there. You can do it. It just takes courage to go there. Courage to know that it does get better. The universe and all those beings and people around you do have your back.
AND once you get there you truly will feel so much Peace, Joy in more moments and Unconditional Love for yourself and others
WHAT’S MORE…
You’ll finally start taking action towards your purpose/destiny, heck even chat up that guy/girl you feel in your soul’s desire because you truly won’t give a fuck!
AND that is something to rejoice.
Here if you need x
P.S.
If you’re reading this. KNOW that I truly love you and have love and acceptance, without judgement for you, even if you can’t feel it for yourself right now… know that if we were to meet, you would feel that from me. AND if a total stranger can feel that for you, isn’t it about time you started to feel that for yourself?
